Catch a Husband Cake

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This playful American cake features ultra-moist chocolate layers and fluffy, buttery frosting for a romantic dessert that's as charming as it is delicious. Made with pantry staples and decorated with whimsical touches like roses or heart shapes, this cake is perfect for special occasions or to surprise a loved one. The process includes simple mixing, baking, and stacking steps, making it approachable for home bakers. Ideal for those seeking a memorable, decadent treat that captures both flavor and fun in every slice.

Updated on Tue, 19 Aug 2025 07:02:58 GMT
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Catch a Husband Cake is a playful layer cake meant to delight anyone who tastes it. Rich chocolatey layers and a luscious cloud of frosting make this cake feel like a celebration with every bite. Whether you are wooing a special someone or just indulging your sweet tooth this dessert always sparks a smile.

When I first surprised my best friend with this cake for her engagement party everyone laughed at the name and devoured it instantly. Now it is our go-to cake for birthdays heartbreaks and just-because days.

Ingredients

  • All purpose flour: provides the cake’s structure Choose unbleached for best flavor
  • Sugar: for sweetness and tender texture Use fine granulated for even mixing
  • Unsweetened cocoa powder: makes layers rich and chocolatey Dutch process blends well
  • Baking powder and baking soda: both for the perfect rise Always check expiration
  • Salt: balances sweetness and deepens chocolate notes Fine sea salt is best
  • Eggs: bind everything and give the cake lightness Use large eggs at room temp
  • Vegetable oil: adds moisture resulting in softness Choose a neutral oil
  • Milk: gives the cake tenderness Whole milk enriches flavor
  • Vanilla extract: rounds out the flavors Pure vanilla gives best aroma
  • Butter: makes the frosting fluffy and rich Use softened unsalted butter
  • Powdered sugar: for silky smooth frosting Sift for lump free
  • Cocoa powder: for a chocolate frosting twist Optional but so indulgent
  • Milk in frosting: keeps it velvety Start with two tablespoons and add more if needed
  • Vanilla extract: a hint of warmth in the frosting

Instructions

Prepare the Pans:
Grease two eight inch round cake pans with butter or oil and dust them lightly with flour This helps the cake release cleanly and gives the edges a gentle crust
Mix the Dry Ingredients:
In a large mixing bowl whisk together flour sugar cocoa powder baking powder baking soda and salt Stir thoroughly to ensure leaveners and cocoa are evenly distributed
Combine the Wet Ingredients:
In another bowl whisk eggs vegetable oil milk and vanilla extract The mixture should be smooth and creamy which encourages even mixing with the dry ingredients
Make the Batter:
Pour the wet mixture into the dry ingredients Stir gently until you see no more streaks of flour Overmixing can make the cake dense so stop as soon as the batter is smooth
Bake:
Divide the batter evenly between the prepared pans Gently tap the pans on the counter This releases air bubbles Bake at three hundred fifty degrees Fahrenheit for twenty five to thirty minutes or until a toothpick comes out clean from the center
Cool the Cakes:
Let cakes cool in the pans for ten minutes Then gently turn them out onto a rack to cool completely before frosting This keeps the frosting from melting
Make the Frosting:
Beat the softened butter in a large bowl until creamy and light in color Gradually add the powdered sugar If making chocolate frosting add the cocoa powder alternately with the milk and vanilla Beat until fluffy and spreadable Add an extra splash of milk if too thick
Assemble and Decorate:
Place one cake layer on your serving platter Spread a generous layer of frosting on top Add the second cake layer Cover the entire cake with the remaining frosting Use a spatula or piping bag to add final touches Get whimsical with hearts or roses for the classic catch a husband look
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I adore how adding extra vanilla brightens the frosting you get that true bakery magic. My sister and I once giggled for hours making heart stencils with parchment paper and showering the cake in powdered sugar.

Storage Tips

Store the cake covered at room temperature for two days If your kitchen is warm keep it in the fridge and let it come to room temp before serving The texture is even better the second day as flavors mellow

Ingredient Substitutions

Swap two flax eggs for the eggs to make the cake vegan Oat or soy milk works well instead of dairy You can use gluten free all purpose flour blend with reliable results

Serving Suggestions

Dress up each slice with fresh berries or a drizzle of fruit sauce For parties cut into small squares and serve on a platter I love pairing it with a cup of coffee after dinner

Cultural Context

The name comes from a playful tradition of making a dessert to impress a sweetheart It is all in good fun and the hearts and rings on top show off the romantic theme Every cook puts their own spin on the decorations which is half the fun

Seasonal Adaptations

Use raspberry jam between layers in spring and summer Top with sugared cranberries in winter for festive sparkle Add orange zest to the batter for a special citrus touch

Success Stories

Friends have told me it is their foolproof celebration cake Some even bake it with their kids hearts and chocolate curls everywhere It is not just a cake it is a little moment of joy

Freezer Meal Conversion

Wrap cooled unfrosted layers tightly in plastic and freeze for up to three months Thaw overnight at room temperature before frosting The texture stays soft and the flavor is just as fresh

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A cake with pink roses on top. | buddybiteskitchen.com

This cake is sure to bring smiles and sweet joy to any table. Make it once and you’ll find endless occasions to bake it again.

Common Recipe Questions

What makes this cake extra moist?

The use of oil, eggs, and milk in the batter creates a moist, tender crumb that's rich and satisfying.

Can I use a different frosting?

Yes, while buttercream with cocoa is traditional, you can substitute cream cheese or omit cocoa for a classic vanilla version.

How can I decorate the cake creatively?

Use piped buttercream roses, heart sprinkles, or even a ring motif for romantic flair and fun presentation.

Is this cake suitable for vegetarians?

Yes, this cake contains no meat or gelatin and is suitable for a vegetarian diet. However, it does contain eggs and dairy.

Can the cake be made ahead?

Absolutely! Bake the cake layers a day in advance and frost before serving for best flavor and texture.

What allergens are present?

This cake contains gluten, dairy, and eggs. Check all ingredients if serving those with allergies.

Catch a Husband Cake

Lush chocolate layers and creamy frosting come together in this showstopping romantic cake.

Prep Time
25 minutes
Cook Time
30 minutes
Total Time
55 minutes
Created By Max Buddyfield

Recipe Category Baking

Skill Level Medium

Cuisine Type American

Recipe Yield 8 Number of Servings

Dietary Preferences Suitable for Vegetarians

What You'll Need

Cake

01 1 3/4 cups all-purpose flour
02 1 cup granulated sugar
03 1/2 cup unsweetened cocoa powder
04 1 teaspoon baking powder
05 1 teaspoon baking soda
06 1/2 teaspoon salt
07 2 large eggs
08 1/2 cup vegetable oil
09 3/4 cup whole milk
10 1 teaspoon vanilla extract

Frosting

01 1 cup unsalted butter, softened
02 3 cups powdered sugar
03 1/4 cup cocoa powder (optional, for chocolate version)
04 2 to 3 tablespoons whole milk
05 1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract

Steps to Follow

Step 01

Prepare Cake Pans and Oven: Preheat oven to 350°F (175°C). Grease and flour two 8-inch round cake pans to prevent sticking.

Step 02

Mix Dry and Wet Cake Ingredients: In a large bowl, whisk together all-purpose flour, granulated sugar, cocoa powder, baking powder, baking soda, and salt. In a separate bowl, beat eggs, vegetable oil, milk, and vanilla extract until combined. Pour the wet ingredients into the dry mixture and stir until batter is smooth.

Step 03

Bake the Cake: Divide the batter evenly between the prepared pans. Bake for 25 to 30 minutes or until a toothpick inserted into the center comes out clean. Cool in pans for 10 minutes, then transfer to wire racks to cool completely.

Step 04

Prepare the Frosting: With an electric mixer, beat softened butter until creamy. Gradually add powdered sugar, cocoa powder if using, milk, and vanilla extract, mixing until light and fluffy.

Step 05

Assemble and Decorate: Place one cooled cake layer on a serving plate. Spread frosting across the surface, top with the second layer, and frost the top and sides. Decorate with piped designs such as roses or hearts as desired.

Tools You'll Need

  • Mixing bowls
  • Electric mixer
  • 8-inch round cake pans

Allergy Warnings

Review each ingredient carefully for allergens. If unsure, consult with a healthcare provider.
  • Contains gluten, dairy, and eggs

Nutritional Info (per serving)

These details are for general information only. Always consult a healthcare professional for dietary concerns.
  • Calorie Count: 350
  • Fat Content: 20 grams
  • Carbohydrates: 40 grams
  • Protein Content: 4 grams